thought provoking The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person  

Samantha Dillinger
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List Rules Vote on the characteristics that most turn you on to potential partners.

What do you love about your guy or gal? Their hair? Their smile? Their honesty? This is a list of the biggest turn ons for women and men, meaning what men want in a woman and what women want in a man. Wondering how to be charming and attractive to the opposite sex? This crowdsourced list contains the best qualities that a person can have, as agreed upon by the Ranker community. These traits are what women really want and what men like. The secret to making yourself attractive to a potential mate can be found on this list!

The best qualities in a person will vary, but there's no denying there are well-liked qualities that are common across the board. Most people would agree that the biggest turn ons in a person include intelligence, humor, and a hot body, but that's not all!

What are the biggest turn ons for men and women? What are the best personality traits? This is a great place to see what things other people value, whether you're trying to determine the best qualities in another person or trying to answer the question "what qualities should I have?"
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1
14,823 1,536
Eyes is listed (or ranked) 1 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Eyes

2
13,221 1,088
Smile is listed (or ranked) 2 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Smile

3
12,446 1,613
Intelligence is listed (or ranked) 3 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Intelligence

4
11,898 1,622
Attractive is listed (or ranked) 4 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Physical Attractiveness

5
10,565 1,116
Kind Heartedness is listed (or ranked) 5 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Kind Heartedness

6
10,619 1,611
Scent is listed (or ranked) 6 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Aya1 added Scent

7
9,725 1,055
Loving Nature is listed (or ranked) 7 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Loving Nature

8
8,947 1,674
Pleasant Voice is listed (or ranked) 8 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
mkhrrs89 added Pleasant Voice

9
9,679 821
Respectful is listed (or ranked) 9 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Respectfulness

10
9,208 1,322
Thoughtfulness is listed (or ranked) 10 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Thoughtfulness

11
8,423 1,020
Politeness / Good Manners is listed (or ranked) 11 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Politeness / Good Manners

12
6,716 1,713
Generosity is listed (or ranked) 12 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Generosity

13
7,698 2,364
Hair is listed (or ranked) 13 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Hair

14
8,098 1,149
Confidence is listed (or ranked) 14 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
analise.dubner added Confidence

The Best Qualities in a Woman

15
9,271 3,109
Butt is listed (or ranked) 15 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Butt

16
7,293 1,920
Lips is listed (or ranked) 16 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Lips

17
7,854 1,122
Good Grooming Habits is listed (or ranked) 17 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Good Grooming Habits

18
7,159 1,130
Listening Skills is listed (or ranked) 18 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Listening Skills

19
7,472 1,091
Kissing Skills is listed (or ranked) 19 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnemarieCruellaBarnes added Kissing Skills

20
6,948 647
Reliability is listed (or ranked) 20 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Coolza added Reliability

21
6,075 342
Honesty is listed (or ranked) 21 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
GokuKurosaki added Honesty

15 Reasons Why You Are the Most Annoying Person on Facebook

22
6,471 254
Personality is listed (or ranked) 22 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
bryansboxx2 added Personality How a person acts and the way they conduct their self.

23
7,792 1,347
Skill in Bed is listed (or ranked) 23 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Lasbas added Skill in Bed

24
6,157 348
Humour is listed (or ranked) 24 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person

25
6,480 2,978
Legs is listed (or ranked) 25 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Legs

26
6,972 3,101
Chest is listed (or ranked) 26 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Chest

27
6,189 1,113
Sensual is listed (or ranked) 27 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added Sensuousness

28
5,773 877
Patience is listed (or ranked) 28 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added Patience

How to Get a Girl to Like You

29
4,430 186
Loyalty is listed (or ranked) 29 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
syed-taha-wajahat added Loyalty

30
5,447 1,155
Tolerance is listed (or ranked) 30 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added Tolerance

31
5,538 853
Laugh is listed (or ranked) 31 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
jojoh0 added Laugh

32
3,819 543
Fresh Breath is listed (or ranked) 32 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
domuchpolevaulting added Fresh Breath

33
4,479 964
Awareness of Their True Self is listed (or ranked) 33 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
fukUits33Dgrees added Awareness of Their True Self

34
5,056 1,395
Good Taste is listed (or ranked) 34 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Good Taste

35
4,315 1,310
Creativity is listed (or ranked) 35 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
kaylive added Creativity

Famous People You Didn't Know Were Married to Each Other

36
3,459 2,215
Eloquence is listed (or ranked) 36 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Eloquence

37
4,715 1,438
Problem Solving is listed (or ranked) 37 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Problem Solving

38
3,110 318
Values is listed (or ranked) 38 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
RobLein added Values

39
4,241 811
Ablity to Trust the Right Peop... is listed (or ranked) 39 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Ablity to Trust the Right People

40
3,632 624
Courage is listed (or ranked) 40 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
cedarhawk7 added Courage

41
3,865 1,346
Libido is listed (or ranked) 41 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Wprett added Libido

42
3,588 2,127
Style / Fashion Sense is listed (or ranked) 42 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Style / Fashion Sense

17 Signs You Are Being Cheated On

43
3,319 1,276
Animal Empathy is listed (or ranked) 43 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Animal Empathy

44
3,014 1,273
Great Taste in Music is listed (or ranked) 44 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Trioxin245 added Great Taste in Music

45
2,455 2,065
Accent is listed (or ranked) 45 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Accent

46
2,993 2,138
Talent is listed (or ranked) 46 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
PaulJ.Hernandez added Talent

47
2,433 1,017
Cooking Skills is listed (or ranked) 47 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Sausage added Cooking Skills

48
3,383 1,565
Posture is listed (or ranked) 48 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
ZarekKniffen added Posture

49
2,285 122
Sense of Humour is listed (or ranked) 49 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Tigereyesxx added Sense of Humour

50
2,946 815
Skill with Children is listed (or ranked) 50 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
NavidHaider added Skill with Children