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The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person

Updated July 15, 2020 446.6k votes 30.8k voters 939.8k views79 items

List RulesVote on the characteristics that most turn you on to potential partners.

What do you love about your guy or gal? Their hair? Their smile? Their honesty? This is a list of the biggest turn ons for women and men, meaning what men want in a woman and what women want in a man. Wondering how to be charming and attractive to the opposite sex? This crowdsourced list contains the best qualities that a person can have, as agreed upon by the Ranker community. These traits are what women really want and what men like. The secret to making yourself attractive to a potential mate can be found on this list!

The best qualities in a person will vary, but there's no denying there are well-liked qualities that are common across the board. Most people would agree that the biggest turn ons in a person include intelligence, humor, and a hot body, but that's not all!

What are the biggest turn ons for men and women? What are the best personality traits? This is a great place to see what things other people value, whether you're trying to determine the best qualities in another person or trying to answer the question "what qualities should I have?"
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  • 1
    6,537
    244

    Personality

    How a person acts and the way they conduct their self.
  • 2
    10,030
    568

    Humor

  • 3
    11,320
    952

    Smile

  • 4
    5,994
    320

    Honesty


  • 5
    9,144
    946

    Kind Heartedness

  • 6
    7,334
    303

    Loyalty

  • 7
    8,429
    682
  • 8
    12,236
    1,376

    Eyes

  • 9
    10,649
    1,421

    Intelligence

  • 10
    6,193
    546

    Reliability

  • 11
    7,295
    822

    Politeness / Good Manners

  • 12
    8,401
    987

    Loving Nature

  • 13
    10,137
    1,396

    Physical Attractiveness

  • 14
    7,828
    1,011

    Thoughtfulness

  • 15
    2,574
    139

    Sense of Humour

  • 16
    5,126
    497

    Values

  • 17
    9,047
    1,349

    Scent

  • 18
    6,910
    993

    Confidence

  • 19
    6,651
    921

    Good Grooming Habits

  • 20
    6,507
    981

    Kissing Skills

  • 21
    6,105
    880

    Listening Skills

  • 22
    7,838
    1,419

    Pleasant Voice

  • 23
    4,830
    724

    Laugh

  • 24
    9,007
    1,391

    Patience

  • 25
    3,735
    511

    Fresh Breath

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