Relationships The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person  

Samantha Dillinger
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List Rules Vote on the characteristics that most turn you on to potential partners.

What do you love about your guy or gal? Their hair? Their smile? Their honesty? This is a list of the biggest turn ons for women and men, meaning what men want in a woman and what women want in a man. Wondering how to be charming and attractive to the opposite sex? This crowdsourced list contains the best qualities that a person can have, as agreed upon by the Ranker community. These traits are what women really want and what men like. The secret to making yourself attractive to a potential mate can be found on this list!

The best qualities in a person will vary, but there's no denying there are well-liked qualities that are common across the board. Most people would agree that the biggest turn ons in a person include intelligence, humor, and a hot body, but that's not all!

What are the biggest turn ons for men and women? What are the best personality traits? This is a great place to see what things other people value, whether you're trying to determine the best qualities in another person or trying to answer the question "what qualities should I have?"
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1
15,189 1,582
Eyes is listed (or ranked) 1 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Eyes

2
13,575 1,121
Smile is listed (or ranked) 2 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Smile

3
12,809 1,657
Intelligence is listed (or ranked) 3 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Intelligence

4
12,235 1,666
Attractive is listed (or ranked) 4 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person

5
10,873 1,140
Kind Heartedness is listed (or ranked) 5 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Kind Heartedness

6
10,918 1,649
Scent is listed (or ranked) 6 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Aya1 added Scent

7
9,993 1,095
Loving Nature is listed (or ranked) 7 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Loving Nature

8
9,231 1,712
Pleasant Voice is listed (or ranked) 8 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
mkhrrs89 added Pleasant Voice

9
9,949 837
Respectful is listed (or ranked) 9 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added

10
9,440 1,345
Thoughtfulness is listed (or ranked) 10 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Thoughtfulness

11
8,661 1,034
Politeness / Good Manners is listed (or ranked) 11 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Politeness / Good Manners

12
6,916 1,747
Generosity is listed (or ranked) 12 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Generosity

13
7,880 2,430
Hair is listed (or ranked) 13 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Hair

14
8,297 1,189
Confidence is listed (or ranked) 14 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
analise.dubner added Confidence

15
7,486 1,966
Lips is listed (or ranked) 15 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Lips

16
9,457 3,211
Butt is listed (or ranked) 16 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Butt

17
8,062 1,140
Good Grooming Habits is listed (or ranked) 17 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Good Grooming Habits

18
6,689 262
Personality is listed (or ranked) 18 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
bryansboxx2 added Personality How a person acts and the way they conduct their self.

19
7,147 658
Reliability is listed (or ranked) 19 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Coolza added Reliability

20
6,304 345
Honesty is listed (or ranked) 20 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
GokuKurosaki added Honesty

21
7,664 1,128
Kissing Skills is listed (or ranked) 21 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnemarieCruellaBarnes added Kissing Skills

22
7,348 1,144
Listening Skills is listed (or ranked) 22 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Listening Skills

23
7,977 1,386
Skill in Bed is listed (or ranked) 23 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Lasbas added Skill in Bed

24
6,368 357
Humour is listed (or ranked) 24 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person

25
6,597 3,060
Legs is listed (or ranked) 25 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Legs

26
6,322 1,158
Sensual is listed (or ranked) 26 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added

27
7,096 3,182
Chest is listed (or ranked) 27 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Chest

28
4,615 192
Loyalty is listed (or ranked) 28 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
syed-taha-wajahat added

29
5,912 895
Patience is listed (or ranked) 29 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added

30
5,579 1,173
Tolerance is listed (or ranked) 30 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added

31
5,691 868
Laugh is listed (or ranked) 31 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
jojoh0 added Laugh

32
3,967 556
Fresh Breath is listed (or ranked) 32 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
domuchpolevaulting added Fresh Breath

33
5,179 1,422
Good Taste is listed (or ranked) 33 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Good Taste

34
4,611 987
Awareness of Their True Self is listed (or ranked) 34 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
fukUits33Dgrees added Awareness of Their True Self

35
4,830 1,458
Problem Solving is listed (or ranked) 35 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Problem Solving

36
3,549 2,259
Eloquence is listed (or ranked) 36 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Eloquence

37
4,425 1,343
Creativity is listed (or ranked) 37 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
kaylive added Creativity

38
3,236 324
Values is listed (or ranked) 38 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
RobLein added

39
4,354 821
Ablity to Trust the Right Peop... is listed (or ranked) 39 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Ablity to Trust the Right People

40
3,739 639
Courage is listed (or ranked) 40 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
cedarhawk7 added Courage

41
3,963 1,380
Libido is listed (or ranked) 41 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Wprett added Libido

42
3,676 2,159
Style / Fashion Sense is listed (or ranked) 42 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Style / Fashion Sense

43
3,412 1,307
Animal Empathy is listed (or ranked) 43 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Animal Empathy

44
2,520 2,119
Accent is listed (or ranked) 44 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Accent

45
3,106 1,307
Great Taste in Music is listed (or ranked) 45 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Trioxin245 added Great Taste in Music

46
3,067 2,181
Talent is listed (or ranked) 46 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
PaulJ.Hernandez added Talent

47
2,515 1,046
Cooking Skills is listed (or ranked) 47 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Sausage added Cooking Skills

48
3,461 1,596
Posture is listed (or ranked) 48 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
ZarekKniffen added Posture

49
2,412 129
Sense of Humour is listed (or ranked) 49 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Tigereyesxx added Sense of Humour

50
3,041 840
Skill with Children is listed (or ranked) 50 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
NavidHaider added Skill with Children