thought provoking The Non Sex Things That Mean You Are Good at Sex  

Ryan Davis
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List Rules Vote up the things that have nothing at all to do with sex, but signal to potential partners that you have some seriously sexy skills.

Is there really any way to tell if someone is good at sex without sleeping with them first? Regardless how you feel, whether or not you are compatible with someone in bed can be a major deal breaker for any relationship. But how to really know if someone is good at sex seems relatively impossible. Some believe that having big hands and other physical attributes are an indicator that men may be hiding a pretty big package. But size isn't everything. Most of the time skill is more important.

Rather than equating looks with sexual skill, maybe people should be thinking about what makes someone good in bed. Many different skills have been associated with someone's sexual prowess. Having a way with musical instruments, athleticism, or cooking skills are just a few things people believe indicate a partner may be good in bed. Others believe more personality-based attributes are important when you're sleeping with someone. Being kind, funny, smart or empathetic can go a long way when you're getting intimate between the sheets. So, what is the truth when it comes to these non-sex things? Listed below is a roundup of popular myths and beliefs that people think indicates someone is good at sex - all thanks to the commenters on AskReddit. The only way to know is from experience. So, what are the truest non-sex things that mean you are good at sex?
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1
12,007 575
You have a good sense of humor/are able to laugh at yourself

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2
11,335 697
You have good hygiene

3
10,736 1,089
You're intelligent

4
10,622 1,128
You have empathy for others

5
9,906 1,700
You can pet a dog properly

6
9,651 1,899
You give good massages

7
8,584 2,755
You are confident

8
7,981 2,824
You're good at cooking

9
7,857 2,791
You savor your food

10
7,555 2,877
You know how to pet a cat properly

11
7,512 2,877
How you eat a popsicle/banana

12
7,062 2,753
You have good fingernail grooming

13
5,807 3,651
You're a relaxed driver

14
5,803 3,679
You can shuffle a deck of cards well

15
5,286 3,968
You are a fast typer

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16
5,138 4,242
You can drive stick shift

17
5,033 4,164
You can hula hoop

18
5,054 4,297
You are a good dancer

19
4,917 4,214
You know how to ride a horse

20
4,896 4,219
You are athletic

21
4,749 4,229
You can tie a tie

22
4,535 4,420
You're a good swimmer (especially at butterfly stroke)

23
4,108 4,745
You can open a Starburst wrapper with your tongue

24
3,819 4,902
You're good with cars

25
3,574 5,175
You have a deep voice

26
3,427 5,240
You can tie a cherry stem in a knot with your tongue

27
3,003 5,263
How you eat an oyster

28
2,829 5,534
You are good a yoga

29
2,411 5,758
You can play the bass/guitar/piano/drums

30
1,275 6,740
You can play the flute