thought provoking The Non Sex Things That Mean You Are Good at Sex  

Ryan Davis
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List Rules Vote up the things that have nothing at all to do with sex, but signal to potential partners that you have some seriously sexy skills.

Is there really any way to tell if someone is good at sex without sleeping with them first? Regardless how you feel, whether or not you are compatible with someone in bed can be a major deal breaker for any relationship. But how to really know if someone is good at sex seems relatively impossible. Some believe that having big hands and other physical attributes are an indicator that men may be hiding a pretty big package. But size isn't everything. Most of the time skill is more important.

Rather than equating looks with sexual skill, maybe people should be thinking about what makes someone good in bed. Many different skills have been associated with someone's sexual prowess. Having a way with musical instruments, athleticism, or cooking skills are just a few things people believe indicate a partner may be good in bed. Others believe more personality-based attributes are important when you're sleeping with someone. Being kind, funny, smart or empathetic can go a long way when you're getting intimate between the sheets. So, what is the truth when it comes to these non-sex things? Listed below is a roundup of popular myths and beliefs that people think indicates someone is good at sex - all thanks to the commenters on AskReddit. The only way to know is from experience. So, what are the truest non-sex things that mean you are good at sex?
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1
12,282 590
You have a good sense of humor/are able to laugh at yourself

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2
11,587 717
You have good hygiene

3
10,978 1,111
You're intelligent

4
10,855 1,161
You have empathy for others

5
10,138 1,734
You can pet a dog properly

6
9,871 1,942
You give good massages

7
8,784 2,813
You are confident

8
8,166 2,889
You're good at cooking

9
8,024 2,867
You savor your food

10
7,745 2,938
You know how to pet a cat properly

11
7,689 2,933
How you eat a popsicle/banana

12
7,233 2,807
You have good fingernail grooming

13
5,934 3,746
You're a relaxed driver

14
5,938 3,761
You can shuffle a deck of cards well

15
5,399 4,070
You are a fast typer

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16
5,263 4,334
You can drive stick shift

17
5,156 4,260
You can hula hoop

18
5,162 4,402
You are a good dancer

19
5,045 4,302
You know how to ride a horse

20
5,022 4,310
You are athletic

21
4,878 4,309
You can tie a tie

22
4,643 4,517
You're a good swimmer (especially at butterfly stroke)

23
4,209 4,850
You can open a candy wrapper with your tongue

24
3,911 5,011
You're good with cars

25
3,658 5,291
You have a deep voice

26
3,520 5,356
You can tie a cherry stem in a knot with your tongue

27
3,075 5,388
How you eat an oyster

28
2,896 5,667
You are good at yoga

29
2,480 5,891
You can play the bass/guitar/piano/drums

30
1,307 6,906
You can play the flute