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Reasons Guys Go after Quiet (but Not Shy) Girls

Updated November 6, 2018 1.4k votes 351 voters 30.6k views12 items

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Quiet but strong, quiet but complicated, quiet but passionate - all traits of powerful women (not women who are afraid to speak their minds). Just because a girl is quiet doesn't mean she doesn't have opinions, and it doesn't mean she won't fight to the death for you. It's our theory that quiet but not shy girls are some of the best types of girls. Here are a few reasons why. 
  • 1

    Under her quiet exterior is a strong and passionate personality

    A quiet exterior is merely an admirable cover for a complex and beautiful interior. Passionate personalities, strong sincerity - these are the kind of traits that are below that soft-spoken surface. A quiet girl is who she is because she can tune out the noise and not contribute any noise herself.
    Is this why you like quiet girls?
  • 2

    She absorbs and listens

    Rather than just blurting something out at random and without consideration, a quiet girl actually absorbs what she's hearing. She is listening to you, she is listening to her surroundings, and above all, she is listening to herself. 
    Is this why you like quiet girls?
  • 3

    She doesn't try to make it all about her

    One unattractive quality in a girl, or any human being on planet earth, is someone who hogs the spotlight. You know these people in your social circles: it's always about them, it's never about you, and it's never about the group. But a quiet girl doesn't need the boost to her ego to draw all of the attention out of the room or emotionally drain the people around her.

    Self-centeredness can often result in over-talking, which is hardly attractive to guys who are looking for someone to spend their time (let alone their lives) with.

    Is this why you like quiet girls?
  • 4

    She knows how to treat others

    The way to treat someone is with respect and with balance. If you are hogging the conversation, it is hard to be on your side. But this is the kind of girl who knows, whether through nature or through nurture or through both, that people should always have the chance to speak their mind. Rather than seeing this as weakness, people should see this as a sign of respect.

    Nobody deserves to be interrupted and nobody deserves to be talked over. She understands and recognizes both of these things, and she walks the walk (even if she doesn't loudly talk the talk).

    Is this why you like quiet girls?