Everyone, famous or otherwise, falls victim to bouts of self-destructive behavior. After all, where's the fun in living safely when well-behaved people rarely make history? When told she played with her life, legendary chanteuse Edith Piaf responded "What else is there to play with?" She makes a fair point.
The next time someone accuses you of living dangerously, direct them to the 'my own worst enemy' memes below. As long as you clean up nicely (and after yourself), no one can bemoan you being a hot mess. That's a personal problem, and one you can solve on you own, thank you very much.